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面目全菲When Heaven is about to place a great responsibility on a great man, it always first frustrates his spirit and will, exhausts his muscles and bones, exposes him to starvation and poverty, harasses him by troubles and setbacks so as to stimulate his spirit,
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19 December Don‘t look back As you travel through life there are always those times when decisions just have to be made when the choices are hard, and solutions seem scarce and the rain seems to soak your parade ! There are some situations where all you can do is to simply let go and move on, gather courage together and choose a direction that carries you toward a new dawn. So pack up your troubles and take a step forward…The process of change can be tough, but think about all the excitement ahead if you can be stalwart enough! There could be adventures you never imagined just waiting around the next bend and wishes and dreams just about to come true in ways you can‘t yet comprehend! Perhaps you‘ll find friendships that spring from new interests as you challenge your status and learn there are so many options in life, and so many ways you can grow! Perhaps you‘ll go to places you’ve never expected and see things that you‘ve never seen or travel to fabulous , faraway worlds and wonderful spots in between! Perhaps you‘ll find warmth and affection and caring — a "somebody special" who‘s there to help you stay centred and listen with interest to stories and feelings you share. Perhaps you‘ll find comfort in knowing your friends are supportive of all that you do and believe that whatever decisions you make, they‘ll be the right choices for you! So keep putting one foot in front of the other and taking your life day by day. There‘s a brighter tomorrow that‘s just down the road. Don‘t look back — you‘re not going that way! 10 December I love Having You to LoveYou are my one true love. 30 November Never give up hopeLife doesn’t always give us the joys we want. We don’t always get our hopes and dreams, and we don’t always get our own way. But don’t give up hope, because you can make a difference one situation and one person at a time. Look for the beauty around you—in nature, in others, in yourself—and believe in the love of friends, family, and humankind. You can find love in a smile or a helping hand, in a thoughtful gesture or a kind word. It is all around, if you just look for it. Give love, for in giving it you will find the power in life along with the joy, happiness, patience, and understanding. Believe in the goodness of others and remember that anger and depression can be countered by love and hope. Even when you feel as though there isn’t a lot you can do to change unhappiness or problems, you can always do a little—and a little at a time eventually makes a big difference. 13 October Hold fast to dreams!!Everybody has blue days. These are miserable days when you feel lousy, grumpy, lonely, and utterly exhausted. Days when you feel small and insignificant, when everything seems just out of reach. You can’t rise to the occasion. Just getting started seems impossible. On blue days you can become paranoid that everyone is out to get you. This is not always such a bad thing. You feel frustrated and anxious, which can induce a nail-biting frenzy that can escalate into a triple-chocolate-mud-cake-eating frenzy in a blink of an eye! On blue days you feel like you’re floating in an ocean of sadness. You’re about to burst into tears at any moment and you don’t even know why. Ultimately, you feel like you’re wandering through life without purpose. You’re not sure how much longer you can hang on, and you feel like shouting, “Will someone please shout me!” It doesn’t take much to bring on a blue day. You might just wake up not feeling or looking your best, find some new wrinkles, put on a little weight, or get a huge pimple on your nose. You could forget your date’s name or have an embarrassing photograph published. You might get dumped, divorced, or fired, make a fool of yourself in public, be afflicted with a demeaning nickname, or just have a plain old bad-hair day. Maybe work is a pain in the butt. You’re under major pressure to fill someone else’s shoes, your boss is picking on you, and everyone in the office is driving you crazy. You might have a splitting headache, or a slipped dish, bad breath, a toothache, chronic gas, dry lips, or a nasty ingrown toenail. Whatever the reason, you’re convinced that someone up there doesn’t like you. Oh what to do, what to dooo? Well, if you’re like most people, you’ll hide behind a flimsy belief that everything will sort itself out. Then you’ll spend the rest of your life looking over your shoulder, waiting for everything to go wrong all over again. All the while becoming crusty and cynical or a pathetic, sniveling victim. Until you get so depressed that you lie down and beg the earth to swallow you up or, even worse, become addicted to Billy Joel songs. This is crazy, because you’re only young once and you’re never old twice. 22 August As Heaven’s movement is ever vigorous, so must a gentleman ceaselessly strive along.We know each other by a beautiful misunderstanding……If never been decadent, you would not enter my heart;Once many times you have been with me through the endless long nights;Once you have said I was the best in your eyes ;Once you have said you will not love anybody except me;Once you have said you can wait for your life for me ……In the midnight, the sorrow will not stop, and my heart is filled with lose andsadness, all is the tear after you crying . Now I will cry for you .Your love lets me wander up and down, let me step back , make me frightenedThe heart is hard, the heart is really so tired. Leave, leave , leave……If I have left, your world will meet a person by chance, she will tell you whisperthat it has been midnight , don't go on - -I believeIf I have left, your world will come with a person, she will listen to you silentlyforever - -I am sure ofIf I have left, a person will stay in your world, she will look at the sad boy quietly- -I firmly believeIf I have left, a person will come into your world, she will say gently in yourear she does not allow you to be injured again - -I am deeply convinced ……I have cried, because I can not afford to bear your loveI have smiled, because she will appear in your worldI have left, because she will love you attentively……My dear, this words that I write for you, and the only one too ……I have left ……27 June 让你不戴帽子 一天兔子在街上遇见老狼,老狼抬手就抽了兔子一大嘴巴,"让你不戴帽子".第二天,兔子吸取经验,戴上了帽子去逛街,结果又遇上了老狼,老狼二话没说,抬手又抽了兔子一大嘴巴,"让你戴帽子....."
兔子回家越想越郁闷,总是这么挨打也不是个事儿哦,兔子决定向老虎去投诉.第二天,兔子来到老虎家,走近门口,就听见里面有说话的声音,仔细一听,原来是老虎和老狼在聊天.
只听老虎说"哥们,你这么整有点太明显了,你说,如果兔子来我这里投诉你,我很难办呀."
"......."老狼无语.
老虎接着说"办事要灵活,别总是找同一理由打人呀,比如,你可以和兔子说,让他给你去买洗衣服的.如果他拿来的是肥皂,你就抽他,说你要洗衣粉;如果他拿洗衣粉,也好办,你说你要肥皂不就得了.......再或者,你让他给你找个女人.如果他领来个胖的,你就说你要瘦的,他要是给你找个瘦的,你就说你要胖的....."
门外的兔子一听,得,也别投诉了,感情都是一伙的....
次日,兔子果然又在街上碰到老狼.老狼说"去,给我弄点洗衣服的东西来....".兔子不慌不忙的说"你要洗衣粉呢还是肥皂呢?".老狼一听,心想,"可以呀,有一手呀".老狼接着说"去,给我找个女人来."兔子又不慌不忙的问,"那,你是要胖的呢,还是要瘦的?"...
老狼一听,抬手就抽了兔子一大嘴巴说"让你不戴帽子....." 26 June 差一步，就是经典 有过装修体验的人，都有类似的感慨，在神经马上就要崩溃的时候，一切都结束了，于是，很多人回忆起这段经历，都会带着一种“让我欢喜让我忧”或者“痛并爽着”的感慨。相信玩过嘉年华的人，对这种感觉也不会陌生。记得一次坐空中轮转，在游戏即将结束前几秒，感觉身体超级不适，到承受极限了，误以为游戏还要继续，哭着喊着嚷嚷＂不玩了，放我下去．．．＂，工作人员赶紧跑到我面前安慰道＂小姐请您放心，游戏马上结束．＂。。。虽然过后感觉自己当时非常的丢人．．．但喊＂停止＂绝对是一种本能．听嘉年华的工作人员说，嘉年华很多游戏项目的主流设计思路是，将游戏时间的设置精确到玩家承受的极限范围内，在接近或者达到承受极限的当口，游戏结束．让玩家用体验来诠释“刺激”．这就是经典。精确的计算，时间恰倒好处。让玩家经历一场“非常体验”的同时，不至于付出身体不适的代价。
生活中，很多事情也是一样的吧，只是，由于没有恰当把握分寸，导致，结果和经典只差一步。很多游戏玩家，对游戏，欲罢不能，虽然知道玩游戏会消耗掉大把的时间和精力，但是，总是痛定思痛后，继续。。。广大的吸烟爱好者，“吸烟有害健康”，地球人都知道，但是，就是明知山有虎，偏向虎山行。。。很多人对待感情也是一样的，当有了“生活太过平淡了”的感慨后，就希望给平淡的生活里加点盐。于是，恋爱中的一方，来点什么“精神出轨”，交个网友，或者发展点地下情，可能适当的刺激会缓解压力，给沉闷的生活注入一点活力，而且，从“没有比较就没有鉴别”的角度考虑，这也未尝不是一件好事。不比较怎么知道身边的人是否适合自己。。。但是，诸位，您能把握好火候吗？迷恋游戏，最坏的结果是“玩物丧志”，可是，竞争如此激烈的环境，相信广大游戏爱好者能到这个境界的少之又少；吸烟，在很大程度上可以缓解压力，身体是自己的，谁难受谁知道，估计，“和出身体，也要将吸烟进行到底”的勇士，没有。谁跟自己叫劲呀？！至于想给平淡生活加点盐的各位，劝您三思而后行哦。感情是两个人的事情，玩火者自焚。在情感上如果”差一步，就是经典“，那绝对是您一生的遗憾。
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